“Daddy Tips”: Why a Father’s One-Page Career List May Be Worth More Than a Tech Bootcamp

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By: Christian Pierce

One in five young candidates bring their parents to job interviews. Not for moral support. For logistical help. They cannot tell an employer what skills they bring. They cannot articulate a salary expectation. They cannot, in many cases, hold a conversation with the receptionist. This is the generation that learned to code before they learned to make small talk. Gen Z navigates AI tools with the same ease their parents once used WordStar. They can deploy ChatGPT prompts faster than most senior managers can open a spreadsheet. And then they freeze when a colleague asks a question in an open meeting. They scroll through Slack messages instead of walking to someone’s desk. They schedule Zoom calls instead of picking up a phone. They have become digital fluent, human mute. Richard Roper sees this everywhere. He runs Marsh People and Investment for Hong Kong and Macau. He has spent thirty years watching employees rise or stall. He told the audience at the Leaders Forum in Macau on September 8 that he watched this exact pattern develop. So when his two eldest daughters were ready to enter the workforce, he did not just say good luck. He sat down. He wrote a sheet of paper. He called it daddy tips. Not a LinkedIn post. Not a motivational quote card. A single page of hard-won, unglamorous career rules. Thirty years of watching people succeed and fail in corporate life.

The list he handed them is almost aggressively old-fashioned. Be enthusiastic. Be polite. Be punctual. Show up on time. Always bring value to a meeting. Find a career you love and you will never work another day of your life. Think about what your boss is looking for and make their life easier. First impressions count—get an early win. Network at work. Be kind to people below you and at your level. Try different things. No one is ready for a promotion, so just accept the job and learn once you have it. Some things pay more than others for the same effort—investment banking pays huge, teaching and nursing pay less. It is not about your value to society. It is about your value to the company. Choose what makes you happy. There is not a single bullet point that sounds like it belongs in a 2026 strategy deck. There is not a single one that does not describe exactly what every employer says they are desperate to find. The numbers confirm the pattern. Harris Poll data compiled in 2024 showed that 65% of Gen Z workers admitted they do not know what to talk about with coworkers. That is two out of three young professionals who cannot navigate casual workplace conversation. The problem gets worse for those who entered the workforce after the pandemic. They are more than twice as likely to struggle with starting a conversation with a colleague compared to workers who entered before COVID. Schools taught them how to type. Schools taught them how to code. Schools did not teach them how to stand in a room of thirty people and say a sentence without rehearsing it five times beforehand. Employers are running into this at every level. Young hires cannot interact with clients. They freeze when someone disagrees with them in a meeting. They do not know what to wear to a business dinner. Some companies are firing unprepared staffers. Others are spending budget on etiquette classes, soft skills training, and lessons specifically on how to speak up in meetings. Nobody is calling this a tech failure. Nobody is framing it as an AI displacement story. It is a basic human skills gap that the education system and the remote-work era combined to widen until it became a crisis.

Roper is not alone in seeing this. Grindr CEO George Arison, a Soviet-born executive, plans to bring his two children to the office once they hit age ten. He wants them to shadow him through twelve-hour days. He said watching him work that hard will show them grit, not just how to use the printer. He says seeing what he does and how important the love for work is will be crucial. That is not a parenting philosophy. That is a labor strategy. In an economy where AI can write the first draft of every report, schedule every meeting, summarize every email, and generate every slide deck, the human premium is steeper than it has ever been. Influence. Storytelling. Reading a room. Making someone feel comfortable who has been uncomfortable all week. These are not soft skills anymore. They are the only skills that cannot be automated. Every company that keeps hiring Gen Z will eventually run into the same wall Roper handed his daughters on paper. You can teach someone to write Python in a six-month bootcamp. You can hire an LLM to generate a market research report in fifteen minutes. You cannot automate judgment. You cannot script charisma. The worker who walks into a meeting and knows exactly how to land a point will outperform the worker who has the fanciest dashboard but cannot open their mouth for ten minutes. The gap between those two people is where careers get built. And it is a gap that no algorithm can close.

Author bio: Christian Pierce, a chief financial columnist and markets commentator covering workforce economics, generational labor shifts, and human capital strategy for a leading international business publication.