Gen Z’s Career Climb: Why Embracing Awkwardness is Your Secret Weapon
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By: Robert Kensington
Gen Z, let’s cut to the chase. The world you’ve known is engineered to eliminate every uncomfortable human exchange. But here’s the kicker: that’s a ticking time bomb for your career. AI is mowing down entry-level skills tied to IQ—coding, data work, even research. What remains indispensable? The ability to navigate disagreements, listen intently, and emerge from tough conversations with a better outcome. A 2025 survey by the American Association of Colleges and Universities found 96% of employers value productive disagreement, yet only 34% think recent grads are up to the task. You’ve got to close that gap.
Take friction-maxxing, a term coined by Kathryn Jezer-Morton. It’s about deliberately building tolerance for discomfort technology has erased. A phone call to a stranger? That’s friction-maxxing. No drafting, no do-over—just real-time vulnerability. You’ve seen moms coaching teens through dentist appointments on TikTok? That’s low-stakes training. Gen Z hasn’t lacked for connection; you’ve just lacked practice in hard conversations.
Colleges are stepping in. Programs like Civic Gym, run by Unify America, pair students one-on-one across 200 campuses in 42 states. They tackle thorny topics—immigration, education, free speech—with peers who see the world differently. At the University of North Dakota, nearly 900 students participated. Over 90% felt heard without judgment. More than 80% left with a new perspective. Three-quarters wanted more. That’s not a generation afraid of hard talks; it’s one starved for practice.
So, where do you start? Today, have a conversation where you ask two follow-up questions before sharing your opinion. Active listening isn’t just hearing; it’s staying in someone else’s mind until you truly understand. Next time your group project hits a snag, ditch texting. Get on a call or in a room. Talk it out loud. It’s not about the solution; it’s about practicing real-time problem-solving with others. When someone’s opinion clashes with yours, ask yourself why they might be right before dismissing it. Testing your own reasoning against others’ is a must-have workplace skill.
Introduce yourself to someone at an event instead of scrolling. Initiate human exchange with no script. Make your own appointments by phone. Low-stakes, real-time, no edits. It’ll be awkward. Lean into that discomfort. Every awkward call, every unscripted chat, is training. Your career will thank you for it.
Author bio: Robert Kensington, an overseas entrepreneurial veteran with decades of experience in real-economy industrial investment and expansion